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"How I Wasted My Education"

“How I Wasted My Education” The question of the week always is, “When are you going back to work?” Which is then followed by, “Don’t you feel like you’ve wasted your education?” I usually chuckle, and think to myself, “Since when is educating yourself a waste?!” I try not to let peoples’ questions irk me, as with all of the kind of questions and comments I receive daily. But I cannot help think that when people ask you when you are going back to work, they are insinuating that this is what moms automatically do after maternity leave, and if you do choose to stay home, you are viewed as “old fashioned” or taking a step backward in the world of the working mom.  When I thought about what I had wanted to be when I grew up, I never thought that I was limited to becoming one thing. I thought number one, mother, number two, an author, and number three, something where I would help others in society. And the possibilities were endless from there. Why can’t I be a stay at home mot